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tldr; Directives are the siren song of efficiency that actually kill curiosity. If you want a team that thinks for themselves, stop giving them the answers. Today we look at how to build psychological safety, lead with questions, and start creating an environment of empowerment, today! In my last message, I talked about the Directive Style —that siren song of efficiency that actually acts as a "Checklist Trap," killing curiosity and stalling growth. It feels good to have all the answers, doesn't it? But as discussed, if you're the one approving every minor decision, you aren't leading; you're just creating a bottleneck. If you want a team that thrives even when you're on vacation, you have to stop assigning tasks and start coaching outcomes. So, how do we actually make the shift? It starts with Psychological Safety . If you just announce on a Tuesday that everyone is "empowered" and expect magic, I suspect you’ll be sorely disappointed. Empowerme...

tldr; Directiveness feels efficient, but it’s often a "Checklist Trap" that kills curiosity and stalls growth. If you find yourself doing all the talking or approving every minor decision, you aren't just managing—you’re dismantling your team's potential.  Explore some red-flags and warning signs, and try something new to unleash the greatness within your team.

📖 “Never be afraid to raise your voice for honesty and truth and compassion against injustice and lying and greed. If people all over the world would do this, it would change the earth.” -  William Faulkner It takes courage to stand up and say something that may go against the grain, or be an unpopular opinion. Faulkner challenges us to change the world by sharing our ideas - for standing up and challenging the status quo. Leaders have to strike a balance between efficient decision making, and creating a space where team members feel safe to add a differing perspective or contrary idea to the conversation. Innovation requires "outside of the box" thinking. Do you create an environment where team members can "rasie their voice?" Need some ideas to try? Maybe explore one or more of these... ✔️ Establish (and continually revisit) shared norms ✔️ Give space and effectively listening ✔️ Communicate with compassion ✔️ Reward speaking up ✔️ Frame work as experiments ...

  📖 A leader is best when people barely know he exists. When his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves."
 -Lao Tzu True leadership is about helping people to grow, and enabling them to succeed. By creating a clear understanding of the goal, equipping people with the tools they need, creating an environment where people can feel empowered and inspiring them to work together to achieve... a leader fulfills their purpose. Are you leading to equip, empower and inspire? Or are you leading to be seen?

📖 “In individuals, insanity is rare; but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule.” -Friedrich Nietzsche Nietzsche's thinking about how individuals interact when in a group closely aligns with the concept defined by Irving Janis in 1972 called "groupthink." ✏️ Groupthink is a psychological phenomenon in which people strive for consensus within a group. In many cases, people will set aside their own personal beliefs or adopt the opinions of the rest of the group. Individuals with differing opinions, or even opposed to the group's decisions frequently remain quiet in order to keep the peace rather than disrupt the crowd's uniformity. This phenomenon is common in the workplace, as the decision-making cycle continues to compress, and the pressure to deliver increases. It's a danger to leaders and managers because it reduces the likelihood of teams identifying and mitigating risk. Creativity and innovation is pushed to the side in favor of "goin...

"I want my team to be more accountable." "I wish my team took initiative more often." "It would be great if my team thought more 'out of the box.'" Teach your team HOW to think, instead of WHAT to think. Teams follow your lead, so if you're looking for improvements in them... why not start looking at how you're leading? Start by turning the statements into questions. ❔ How can I make my team more accountable? 💡 Give them a stake in solving problems. Encourage them to design AND build solutions. People tend to feel more ownership when they have a hand in designing what's being built. For example: -- Conduct brainstorming sessions around solving a specific problem. -- Gamify problem solving ( such as rewards for the most creative solution to a sticky problem.)   ❔ What am I doing to keep my team from taking initiative? 💡 Be clear about the results you are looking for, and reward your team for identifying ways t...

  “Do not give them a candle to light the way, teach them how to make fire instead. That is the meaning of enlightenment.” ― Kamand Kojouri   It's a fine line- balancing between helping your partners achieve a goal, and teaching them the skills (and building the experience) necessary to achieve their goals over and over and over again.   ⛔ "Just tell us what to do, and we will do it." ⛔ "Provide us the steps or the checklist." ⛔ "How do you want us to do this?"   This language is common, and it suggests to me that the team (regardless of level) has been conditioned to not take risks. To me it means they have learned through experience that their safest course of action is to have someone else solve the problem and instead just do as told.     In other words, they are doing exactly what they have been trained (and incen ted) to do.   Sure- some problems need to be solved right now! There can be an immediate benefit ...

Happy Monday. As you set your goals for the upcoming week, why not challenge yourself to try one small thing? Leaders who ask questions instead of giving instructions create an enviornment where team members feel empowered and passonate about solving problems. 💡 "What are your ideas about how to solve this?" 💡"If you were me, how would you address this?" 💡"If you could solve this problem right now, what would you do?" Give your team members the space to be creative, and the support to implement their own solutions - and they will thrive! What's stopping you from making a small change today? We all win together.